Love : The Real and Literal Meaning

Love, Pyaar, Ishq, Muhoobat, this word has a very wide and deep meaning, it is a spiritual word. Love refers to a variety of different feelings, states and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal feelings, affections to pleasure. It can refer to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment. It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection – “The unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another”. It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one’s self or animals.

A living creature is able to love anything personal or impersonal existing on this earth. Human beings specially can express their love in acts or by speech. Love can be of different types, materialistc love, spiritual love, love towards a living thing, etc., etc., etc., ……..

A person can be said to love an object, principle, or a goal to which they are deeply committed and greatly valued. It may sometimes be born not of inter personal love but impersonal love, altruism, or strong spiritual or political convictions. People can also love material objects, animals or activities of they invest themselves in bonding or otherwise identifying with those things.

Love between human beings refer to interpersonal love. It is more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Unrequited love refers to those feelings of love that are not reciprocated. Interpersonal love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationship. Such love might exist between family members, friends and couples. There are also a number of psychological disorders related to love.

Throughout history, philosophy and religion have done the most speculation on the phenomenon of love. In the last century, the science of psychology has written a great deal on the subject. In recent years, the science of psychology, anthropology, neuroscience and biology have added to the understanding of the nature and function of love.

Indian mythology too have given some information about love, here some information refers to the understanding of the present generation, as said in the beginning love has a very deep meaning. We have heard the story of Lord Krishna and Radha which is an immortal love. In this case we can say that tow souls are in love. But commonly it is not understood as the meaning of love in the present time is physical love which includes two bodies, frankly speaking in present time the true meaning of love has vanished and a new meaning has came into existence.

It is fact that, “It is easy to fall in love, but it is hard to be in love.” Here our talk is limited to the interpersonal love of a teenage girl and a boy. We are not discussing any other type of love.

In the present age the word love is meant only with external attachment and not with the internal matter. Today anybody who says that “I love you” has just an intimacy with reference to the external matter. There is no internal attachment associated with the sentence.

It is a pity to say that in the present times the word “Love” is being used for only external intimacy and not for the internal attachment while “love” is meant really for the internal attachment and not for the external intimacy

Life of a Joker

Joker, “A person who plays Jokes.” A person who makes laugh by making ususual things, a person who does mimicry, on of the two extra card in the pack of playing card.

Has anyone ever thought what is the life of a joker, what is there behind that smile, behind that attitude, has anyone thought why the joker always laughs in public and makes others laugh too. No, nobody has ever thought. We all laugh at his deeds and claps on it, but never thought of his life.

The joker is also a human being he is also a feeling full person. He also has his own feelings and imotions but he only laughs and makes other laugh too. Why does he does so ? why ? Is he hiding something ? Some sorrow or graviance or so ?

There are many people in this world who cant express their sorrow or graviance but can feel them they could not fight for their own sorrow with others who have hurted them or have played a cheap game of life with them. But the fact is they are hurted very much hurted from inside, they could not speak, could not express, but they feel it from the heart and on repeating all this sorrow and gravience, one day they start acting abstractly, they hide their sorrows int heir smile, in their silence. One more fact of life is that inspite of being severly hurted a person is expected to live happily with a smiling face in the society. But the society forgets one thing that the person is a human being and not a robot. They also have feelings. They also have all the rights to express everything.

We all see Jokers playing tricks in the circus but there are many such persons who just simply act like a joker in their normal life and hide all their sorrows beneath their smile. They make very one happy but from inside they are too sad and hurted but never ever let anybody know their sorrow or the reason, the true reason of their sorrow, they just smile and smile and smile. Ins hort they truly live for others. In this diplomatic world also they live for others, the world which is full of practical and diplomatic human beings. The world where there is no place for imotions or feelings of heart. All the imotions and feelings are from mind.

In this world the joker is living a true life in a sence that he or she makes others happy and make them smiling.

Lastly, I would just say that, “A Joker is not born by birth, the Joker is born by a society as a whole.”

Life - Complain Complain Complain

Life, a wonderful thing to enjoy. In that the human life is the best ever boon given by God to any soul. Human life is a life where a soul can really enjoy the sereine beauty of the world no other life in this world is as beautiful as the life of a human. A human being can enjoy every aspect of life and the most important is that he / she can express what he / she feels in words.

But the main problem in the present day human life is they are not satisfied with their life and just are complaining about their life. Why ?  Why can’t they just enjoy what God has gifted them.

Many a times or often when we meet somebody we come across some common factors that connects all of us and that is our tendency to complain, non – stop ! If we are asked to say some words about our life, it will be lumps, bumps, what is missing, who and how got hurt and the unfairness of life.

This is the common attitude of 90 to 95% humans on this world. Remarkably only 5 to 10% people are greatful or feel they are lucky or ecstatic about what is happening in their lives.

Our body language is also important. If we are not asked then also our body expressions specially the face expression says all about how we feel for our life. When we are not pleased with our life our face expresses and reflects the message that the whole world is bad. Please stop complaining and live with commitment.

The motto of our life should be “Enjoy what ever life gives.”

Spiritual Illusion

Once a person in his house everyday performed pooja and worshipped God. Everyday he used to get up early in the morning and did pooja and whorshipped God. This was his daily routine for years. A time came when he started giving advises on religion and rituals in his house and his neighbourhood and started bossing over his ways of worshipping and performing status. He started believing that his worship and rituals are the best.

In persent world this is a common example we come across everyday. People are in a illusion of religion and its rituals.

We come across many such peoples who will advise us how to perform our religion and rituals. As they are the mentor. They don’t even release that what they think might not be true to the person whom they are giving the advise.

For Eg. : A person is having a difficult social life then he would be advised to have fast on a certain day or days of a week. He would be advised to chant Mantra’s of some God or Goddess continuously.

But is it in a guarantee that by doing this he would overcome his social difficulties ? No, there is no guarantee. Infact it is possible that the person would feel irritating by doing all these things.

I would clearify myself here that I am not against any religion or any rituals. I am against the mindset of so called bossing people, who are bossing for their ways and understanding of religion.

Another Question here arises is that, “Do they really understand what their religion tries to make them understand ?” Or they just interpret as per their ideology or as per their convenience ?”

Such people who interpret religion and rituals as per their ideology or convenience lives in a state of “Spiritual Illusion” and tries to make everyone to follow him or her. Or tries to make everyone follow his or her ways of performing the religion, which might not be all that true or right as he or she thinks.

Real Joy of Life

Life a gift of nature. The meaning of life is a philosophical question concerning the significance of life or existence in general. It can also be expressed in different forms, such as ,”Why are we here ?”, “What is life all about ?” and “What is the purpose of existence ?” It has been the subject of much philosophical, scientific, and theological speculation throughout history. There have been a large number of proposed answers to these questions from many different cultural and ideological backgrounds.

Here we are not in a mood of discussing what is life.  We are going to discuss how the life should be led. Life, gift of nature, can be led as per own’s wish but the question is, “Are we satisfied ?” or “Are we enjoying life ?”

Mostly we search for happiness of life in the materials which we possess. We, when all these present facilities were not there, do lived a life, a life which was simple, life full of satisfaction, a life full of happiness. Our ancestors lived such life.

There were no gadgets, which are presently available, then also they lived a happy and satisfied life. Still they didn’t complain for their life. They had their ways of amusement and refreshments. They enjoyed in their own way. Why, why they were satisfied ? Why they were happy ?

The answer is very simple they didn’t compare themselves with others. They just believed in themselves. So they were satisfied and could live happily. The search for happiness not in the materials they possess but in their innerself.

Now, coming to the present world life. Simply, A life of Commuter, A race, A race to success, A race to leave all behind and be a winner, To possess the luxurious materials and to boss over their possession, to show off all others that they are very much happy and satisfied.

Now a days people are not concerned with the inner happiness of themselves. They just want to show off to the world about their materialistic wealth. How much more they possess these wealth then the others. And by showing this they feel happy and satisfied.

But the question is, “Are they really happy ?”, “Are they really satisfied ?”

They feel enjoyment of life in going shopping or to any luxurious hotel and stay there for couple of days. “Is this the enjoyment of life ?” “Is the soul satisfied ?” or just fooling ourselves that we are enjoying our life.

The real enjoyment of life is to satisfy our soul and not to show off how much we possess the materialistic wealth and to boss over it. Make the soul enjoy the life and you will enjoy the life for ever till the end.

“Zindagi Ka Safar,

Hai Ye Kaisa Safar,

Koi Samja Nahi,

Koi Jana Nahi.”

“Kisiki Muskurahato Pe Ho Nisar,

Kisiki Ka Dard Mill Sake to le Udhar,

Kisiki Ke Vaste Ho Tere Dil Mai Pyar,

Jeena Isika Naam Hai.”

Mindset of Students - Past and Present.

Mindset of Students – Past and Present

Lord Krishna and his beloved friend Sudama both stayed at their Guru Sandipani’s place and learned everything, all the teachings taught by their Guru. They also worked there for their Guru and did all the work which their Guru told for. Even a small work like sweeping were also done by them very happily.

Once Eklavya was practicing his archery in the woods in front of the idol of his Guru Dronacharya, mean time Guru Dronacharya and his beloved Disciple Arjun and other Disciples passed, they all saw that Eklavya was practicing archery in front of their Guru’s idol. Dronacharya gave a difficult test to Eklavya which Eklavya fulfilled easily. On seeing this that Eklavya would pass on Arjun, Dronacharya asked for the right thumb of Eklavya as “Guru Dakshina”. Without any hesitation Eklavya cut his right thumb and present to Dronachary as his “Guru Dakshina”.

Friends, you would be thinking that I perhaps would be in a mood of discussing mythological incidents. No my dear friends you are mistaken am not in any such mood but this are only some examples of the students who were also studying infact had studied lot more than the present age students.

In the past the students worshipped their Guru, whatever may be the attitude of the guru or whatever the guru did, right or wrong (according to the students mind), they always worshipped their guru, they respect them. The only reason was they had a thing in mind that he or she is our Guru / teacher who teaches them. As they had came to learn they had to obey the Guru’s order.

No doubt there was bias and prejudice at that time also but the students didn’t mind it, inspite of being highly intelligent the students never dare to be on top of his Guru, their place was in the foot of his Guru. They never ciriticised or abused their guru. They had complete trust on their Guru. They never doubted their guru.

There are many such examples which can be given for the mindset of the students in the past.

In the past the students learned eagerly from their teachers and so they are still remembered as they became renowned in this world they become famous in this world as they choose the path which their Guru showed.

Now, coming in present, first of all I would like to clarify that am talking about present menas of last 5 years. The students in this present age have totally the opposite e mind set than the students of the past. Present students have ego, an attitude, and superiority. More than 95% students have these qualities.

The reason for this are many, firstly they do not have respect for their teachers even they call their teachers in single name. In India, which was not there, the students used to touch the feets of the teacher and then start their learnings every day. Secondly the mass media, specially the internet, I clearify myself that I am not against the internet but I am against the mindset which has been developing in the present day students, internet just gives information it does not teach how to use that information or how to implement it.

But the present day students just think that by reading the information they have learnt every thing and also develop that ego and attitude that they are superior. Even superior than their teachers. They start abusing and criticizing the theories and methods of the teacher who is teaching heartly and wants the students to be a famous personality of the society.

But to the pity of the teacher it is not possible. Inspite of all the efforts from the teacher they get a fine reward from the students is criticizing and abusement without knowing the truth. From 100 students perhaps 2 or 3 students understands this factors and reach the pinnacle. The rest do not.

Thirdly they are developing an ego of the facilities provided to them or an unexpected win over a small thing. They start thinking that it is all because of their own individual effort and all others including their teachers are worthless. They are cheap. But they forget the most important thing that where they are at present is due to their teachers who have made them capable for what they are just now.

There are many such reasons which can be discussed for the present mindset of the students. I just say to conclude that these are not students they are just an egoistic personalities who are in an illusion that they are superior than their teachers. They are just a fuseless bulb

Relationship - A Boon, A Curse

A person develops relationship as soon as he takes birth on this earth. The first ever relation which a person develops is with the mother. The second is with the father. After this there are many relatiions which are developed maintained and lost in the entire life of a person.
Now, the question arises is what really is the meaning of Relationship ? The simple meaning is "The way in which two or more people or things are connected, or the state of being connected." There are many other meanings also. But we in the present world are literally not understanding the real and simple meaning of Relationship. We have made a joke of this Beautiful concept of life.
In the past this Beautiful Concept of life, "Relationship", was well maintained and enjoyed. Whether there was any type of relation it was maintained heartly and enjoyed with purtiy. People meet each other with their heart and not with their brain. Whether it was a relation of child with his family, or a relation of husband and a wife, or a relation of friends. In each of these relation there was warmness felt between them.
But in present age the people develop any relation with a pre condition of making profit, a prejudice, for satisfying their ego, or for the sake of just maintaining the relations, in case there would be any profit in it. In short in present age people develop relation with their mind. Not with their heart.
A son would keep his parents with him if he is sure to get the benefits of his father's property. A husband would keep with his wife so as to fulfill all his demands. A wife in turn would keep his husband happy to fulfill her own demands and after his death to get hold of all his properties. A girl would keep relation with a girl or a boy to show her superiority and thus to satisfy her ego. In turn a boy would keep relation with a girl just to make use and then throw and then the next one. Thus to built his image, to be more precise, to built his fake image in front of the society and his fellow groups.
In short, there are no relation in this world in present time which are true. People wear different faces for different relations of their own so as to drag their fake realtions in their life and to show to the society that how happy they are.
Lastly, I would ask you all a simple question, "Is Relationship a boon or a curse for you."
Please if you answer to me or to yourself answer frankly