Love, Pyaar,
Ishq, Muhoobat, this word has a very wide and deep meaning, it is a spiritual
word. Love refers to a variety of different feelings, states and attitudes that
ranges from interpersonal feelings, affections to pleasure. It can refer to an
emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment. It can also be a virtue
representing human kindness, compassion, and affection – “The unselfish loyal
and benevolent concern for the good of another”. It may also describe
compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one’s self or
animals.
A living
creature is able to love anything personal or impersonal existing on this
earth. Human beings specially can express their love in acts or by speech. Love
can be of different types, materialistc love, spiritual love, love towards a
living thing, etc., etc., etc., ……..
A person can
be said to love an object, principle, or a goal to which they are deeply
committed and greatly valued. It may sometimes be born not of inter personal
love but impersonal love, altruism, or strong spiritual or political
convictions. People can also love material objects, animals or activities of
they invest themselves in bonding or otherwise identifying with those things.
Love between
human beings refer to interpersonal love. It is more potent sentiment than a
simple liking for another. Unrequited love refers to those feelings of love
that are not reciprocated. Interpersonal love is most closely associated with
interpersonal relationship. Such love might exist between family members,
friends and couples. There are also a number of psychological disorders related
to love.
Throughout
history, philosophy and religion have done the most speculation on the
phenomenon of love. In the last century, the science of psychology has written
a great deal on the subject. In recent years, the science of psychology, anthropology,
neuroscience and biology have added to the understanding of the nature and
function of love.
Indian
mythology too have given some information about love, here some information
refers to the understanding of the present generation, as said in the beginning
love has a very deep meaning. We have heard the story of Lord Krishna and Radha
which is an immortal love. In this case we can say that tow souls are in love.
But commonly it is not understood as the meaning of love in the present time is
physical love which includes two bodies, frankly speaking in present time the
true meaning of love has vanished and a new meaning has came into existence.
It is fact
that, “It is easy to fall in love, but it is hard to be in love.” Here our talk
is limited to the interpersonal love of a teenage girl and a boy. We are not
discussing any other type of love.
In the present
age the word love is meant only with external attachment and not with the
internal matter. Today anybody who says that “I love you” has just an intimacy
with reference to the external matter. There is no internal attachment associated
with the sentence.
It is a pity to
say that in the present times the word “Love” is being used for only external
intimacy and not for the internal attachment while “love” is meant really for
the internal attachment and not for the external intimacy
